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VALENTINE'S DAY

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Valentine’s Day

A Student's Journey: Navigating Faith in Public School during Valentine's Day Week

Once upon a time in a bustling public school, there was a student named Alex who held deep Christian beliefs. As Valentine's Day approached, Alex pondered the idea of sharing expressions of faith in the school setting, where the vibrant laughter of elementary school kids echoed through the hallways.

The Christian Valentines Adventure: One day, Alex decided to create Christian Valentines to share with classmates, including the younger elementary school kids. Each card carried a message of love inspired by Alex's faith. Nervously, Alex handed them out in the hallway between classes, hoping to spread a bit of warmth on the special day. To Alex's delight, the response was not only positive among older students but also among the little ones who cherished the colorful cards.

Classroom Conversations: In English class, where both high school students and elementary school kids came together for a joint project, the teacher encouraged open discussions. During a lesson on love and relationships, Alex felt compelled to share the Christian perspective. Raising a hand, Alex respectfully contributed thoughts about the love of God. The elementary school kids listened with wide-eyed curiosity, and a beautiful interchange of ideas took place, bridging the gap between the different age groups.

Wearing Faith on a T-shirt: One day, Alex decided to wear a T-shirt with a Christian message, catching the attention of not only high school students but also the inquisitive eyes of the elementary school kids. The shirt was adorned with a quote about love and faith. Surprisingly, many students and teachers admired the positive message, and it sparked conversations about the importance of tolerance and understanding different viewpoints, creating a wholesome learning environment for all.

Faith in Assignments: In a history assignment about influential figures, Alex decided to include a section on the impact of faith on historical events. Cautiously incorporating mentions of God, Alex submitted the assignment. The teacher, respecting the diverse backgrounds of students, praised the effort to connect personal beliefs to the historical narrative. The elementary school kids, though younger, also appreciated the storytelling element and the idea of different perspectives such as the Christian  faith  shaping history.

Learning Boundaries and Respecting Others: Throughout these experiences, Alex learned the importance of respecting boundaries, especially when interacting with the younger elementary school kids. Understanding that expressions of faith should be shared in a non-disruptive and age-appropriate manner became a guiding principle. Alex also recognized the need to balance personal expressions with an awareness of the diverse perspectives within the school community.

Conclusion: Alex's journey in navigating faith in public school, was a testament to the importance of students' rights to express their beliefs. The Free Speech Clause provided the foundation for Alex to share his faith in class and also with the entire school community, creating a positive and inclusive atmosphere. As Alex continued the educational journey, the lessons learned about respect, understanding, and balance would forever shape the way faith was expressed in the dynamic tapestry of the public school environment.

Here are a dozen ideas for Christian kids to celebrate Valentine's Day in a public school setting:

1. Kindness Cards: Create cards with messages of love and kindness, incorporating Bible verses or Christian themes.
2. Friendship Bracelets: Make and exchange friendship bracelets as symbols of love and unity, reinforcing the importance of Christian values.
3. Share Bible Verses: Include uplifting Bible verses in small notes or cards to spread God's love among classmates.
4. Valentine's Day Craft: Engage in a craft session with Christian themes, such as creating heart crafts accompanied by Bible verses.
5. Acts of Kindness Challenge: Encourage kids to perform acts of kindness throughout the day, embodying the Christian value of selfless love.
6. Valentine's Day Devotional: Organize a brief devotional or prayer time, allowing kids to reflect on the concept of love and God's love for them.
7. Community Service Project: Coordinate a service project, such as creating care packages for those in need, exemplifying Christ-like love through practical actions.
8. Bible Verse Scavenger Hunt: Arrange a scavenger hunt with hidden Bible verses related to love, making learning about faith interactive and enjoyable.
9. Valentine's Day Choir: If there's a school choir, prepare Christian songs about love and perform them during a school assembly or class gathering.
10. Gratitude Journals: Have kids create gratitude journals, fostering a spirit of gratitude and appreciation consistent with Christian teachings.
11. Caring for Others: Initiate a project where kids create care packages or write letters of encouragement for elderly residents in local nursing homes, demonstrating Christian love for the community.
12. Prayer Partners: Pair kids as prayer partners for the day, allowing them to pray for each other's well-being and fostering a sense of support and connection through prayer.

These activities aim to integrate Christian values into Valentine's Day celebrations in a school-friendly manner, promoting love, kindness, and community. 

Here you’ll find some free Christian Valentines:

Busybooksandmore Free Printables. Page 1 and 2 don't work but 3 to 9 are good.
Notconsumed has Valentine's Basket Printables
The Oriental Trading Company has some Christian ones for sale.
Moneywisesteward has a simple 8x11Printable
Faithfilledfoodformoms has scripture verse hearts
Father's Love Letter for kids is a nice printout too. 
https://www.fathersloveletter.com/kids-fll.html
Why not show your kids the Father’s Love Letter video here:
https://www.fathersloveletter.com/hd-video.html

Can public school students hand out Christian Valentines?

Can they talk about the love of God on Valentine’s day in a class discussion?

What about wearing a T-shirt with a Christian message?

Or mentioning God in an assignment? 

Yes, Yes, Yes and Yes. 

All of those instances are covered by the Free Speech Clause. Students are allowed to talk about their faith in school. It’s their constitutional right.  

Many parents and students get student rights confused with teacher rights. Only teachers’ rights are restricted and can violate the Establishment clause, which means that teachers are not allowed to try to officially establish religion in schools. However teachers can answer students questions about God or participate in a class discussion which was initiated by a student. Teachers can even pray among themselves and have bible studies with other Christian teachers inside schools.

Students, and by extension parents, are not in a position of authority, and therefore can never violate the First Amendment’s Establishment Clause. Therefore they can freely talk about God and their faith. Students have only one restriction: they cannot disturb the class. For example, a student can freely bring up God’s perspective during a class discussion or assignment. But a student cannot stand up and start preaching in the middle of math class. Whenever there’s an appropriate time in class to bring up their opinion, students can also share their faith. 

By the way, even though teachers are not allowed to officially establish religion in schools they are equally not allowed to establish non-religion such as atheism in schools. Often teachers think that acting and talking as if God does not exist is the politically correct way, however that stance also violates the establishment clause; in fact just as much as if they would have talked about God. It’s just that Christians don’t complain about that one as much as atheists complain about any reference to God.


The Valentine's Day story has historical roots, and there are various legends associated with the origin of Valentine's Day.

​One of the popular stories is about a Christian martyr named St. Valentine, who lived during the Roman Empire under Emperor Claudius II. According to the legend, St. Valentine defied the emperor's decree prohibiting young men from marrying and continued to perform marriages in secret. He was eventually imprisoned and sentenced to death. While in prison, he allegedly healed the jailer's blind daughter and left her a note signed "from your Valentine" before his execution.

Valentine's Day Story...more detailed

​The story of Valentine’s Day has roots in both Christian history and Roman traditions, with its origins largely tied to St. Valentine, a Christian martyr, and the broader concept of love.

The Origin of St. Valentine

The most widely accepted version of the story involves St. Valentine, a Christian priest or bishop in 3rd-century Rome. The historical details about his life are somewhat unclear, as there are several different accounts and legends surrounding him. However, the most popular story is that during the reign of the Roman Emperor Claudius II, Valentine was arrested and imprisoned for defying the emperor’s decree that young men should not marry. Claudius believed that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, so he banned marriages for young couples.

Valentine, however, continued to perform secret marriages for couples, defying the emperor’s edict. Eventually, he was arrested and sentenced to death. According to legend, while in prison, Valentine formed a bond with the jailer’s blind daughter. Through the power of God, he is said to have healed her sight, and they became close friends. Before his execution, Valentine is said to have sent her a note signed “From your Valentine,” a phrase that has persisted in modern Valentine’s Day celebrations.

Valentine was executed on February 14, around the year 269 A.D. He is believed to have died for his faith, making him a martyr and symbol of Christian love and sacrifice.

The Christian Symbolism of Love

St. Valentine’s story aligns with the broader Christian understanding of love, which is a central theme in the teachings of Jesus Christ. Christian love is not simply romantic affection, but a selfless, sacrificial love, best exemplified by Christ’s own sacrifice on the cross for humanity. The concept of agape, or unconditional love, is a core teaching in Christianity. Agape goes beyond fleeting emotions and desires; it’s about a deep, sacrificial love that seeks the well-being of others.

In the context of Valentine’s Day, Christian love is reflected in the selflessness and compassion that Valentine demonstrated in his defiance of the emperor’s decree and his willingness to risk his life for others’ happiness and well-being. This act of sacrificial love mirrors Christ’s love for humanity and is a reminder of the importance of showing love not only to those we are romantically involved with but also to our family, friends, and even strangers.

The Evolution of Valentine’s Day

Over time, February 14 became a day of celebration not only of St. Valentine but also of romantic love. The medieval practice of courtly love, which involved knights demonstrating their devotion through chivalrous acts, also contributed to the association of the day with romance. By the 14th and 15th centuries, the tradition of sending love letters or gifts became popular in Europe, further cementing the connection between Valentine’s Day and expressions of romantic love.

While the commercialized version of Valentine’s Day today focuses on romantic gestures like flowers, chocolates, and cards, it’s essential to remember its Christian origins. The true spirit of Valentine’s Day, from a Christian perspective, is about embodying the love Christ taught—selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional.

Christian Love in Practice

For Christians, Valentine’s Day can be an opportunity not just to express affection in romantic relationships but also to reflect on the broader call to love others as Christ loved us. This means showing kindness, patience, forgiveness, and compassion in all relationships, whether familial, friendly, or romantic. In many Christian communities, Valentine’s Day is also used as a time to support and care for those who may be lonely or in need, further emphasizing the Christian ideal of love as a force for good in the world.

Conclusion

In sum, while St. Valentine’s Day has evolved into a celebration of romantic love, its Christian roots lie in the self-sacrificial love modeled by Christ and exemplified in the life and martyrdom of St. Valentine. Valentine’s Day can, therefore, serve as a reminder of the deeper, Christian understanding of love—a love that is not about personal gain or fleeting emotions, but about sacrifice, kindness, and the well-being of others.

Verses on Love

​God’s Love for Us
 John 3:16
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

Psalm 136:26
“Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.”

Psalm 86:15
“But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.”

Zephaniah 3:17
“The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.”

Love in Action
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

 1 John 4:7-8
“Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”

Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
  
 1 John 3:18
“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

Ephesians 4:32
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Proverbs 17:17
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

Love as the Greatest Commandment
Mark 12:31
‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”

Luke 6:31
“Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

Galatians 5:14
“For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Kindness and Care
Proverbs 16:24
“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”

Micah 6:8
“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

Philippians 2:3-4
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

Hebrews 13:16
“And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

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